November 15, 2025

Dear Oksana,

Thank you for your proposal—it's a step toward resolution, and I appreciate the effort after our 24 years together. I cherish our marriage and dual homes (DC's energy, Iowa's calm), but for it to work, it needs balance: My full Iowa access (title 2006, Mercedes 190E) deserves reciprocity for S-316 (fob, title, C230). Attached is my counter-proposal—mutual terms to preserve us without court. Sign by November 12, 2025, for Iowa hearing; otherwise, DC amendment proceeds to hear Judge's opinion.

Love,
Frederick

COUNTER-PROPOSAL TO OKSANA'S AGREEMENT FOR EQUITABLE SEPARATION TERMS Date: November 15, 2025 Parties: Frederick J. Shaddock and Oksana Shemet Shaddock. Recitals: We cherish our 24-year marriage and dual lifestyles; Frederick's full Iowa grant (2006 title, 190E) deserves reciprocity for DC (S-316, C230). Terms:
  1. Mutual Withdrawal: Both withdraw all actions (DC/Iowa) upon title reformation (50/50 S-316 at FlynnCoops.com, Frederick pays $1,000) and fob/occupant status. No new filings.
  2. Mutual Cooperation: Both cooperate on travel; no interference with work/rentals/use of either home.
  3. Iowa Separation: Proceed as legal separation (motion June 9, 2025); mutual input on terms (Exhibit S: Rotations).
  4. Mutual Access: Frederick gets full S-316 access (fob, mail, amenities) anytime (together/apart);
    Oksana gets full Iowa access. No lock changes without mutual keys.
  5. Mutual Content Removal: Both remove online content involving the other.
  6. Mutual Co-op Compliance: Both follow bylaws; no damage/removals without consent. Mutual liability.
  7. Mutual Iowa Room: Oksana's room secure; Frederick's DC space the same.
  8. Mutual Consequences: Breach triggers mutual remedies (injunction, damages $200/day loss of use).
  9. Mutual Entire Agreement: Full understanding; changes in writing.
  10. Governing Law: DC/Iowa; enforceable in either.

Effective: Upon signatures; reconciliation anytime.

Frederick J. Shaddock _______________________ Date: __________

Oksana Shemet Shaddock _______________________ Date: __________