November 15, 2025
Dear Oksana,
Thank you for your proposal—it's a step toward resolution, and I appreciate
the effort after our 24 years together. I cherish our marriage and dual homes
(DC's energy, Iowa's calm), but for it to work, it needs balance: My full Iowa
access (title 2006, Mercedes 190E) deserves reciprocity for S-316 (fob, title,
C230). Attached is my counter-proposal—mutual terms to preserve us without
court. Sign by November 12, 2025, for Iowa hearing; otherwise, DC amendment
proceeds to hear Judge's opinion.
Love,
Frederick
COUNTER-PROPOSAL TO OKSANA'S AGREEMENT FOR
EQUITABLE SEPARATION TERMS
Date:
November 15, 2025
Parties:
Frederick J. Shaddock and Oksana Shemet Shaddock.
Recitals:
We cherish our 24-year marriage and dual lifestyles; Frederick's full Iowa
grant (2006 title, 190E) deserves reciprocity for DC (S-316, C230).
Terms:
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Mutual Withdrawal:
Both withdraw all actions (DC/Iowa) upon title reformation (50/50 S-316 at
FlynnCoops.com, Frederick pays $1,000) and fob/occupant status. No new
filings.
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Mutual Cooperation:
Both cooperate on travel; no interference with work/rentals/use of either
home.
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Iowa Separation:
Proceed as legal separation (motion June 9, 2025); mutual input on terms
(Exhibit S: Rotations).
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Mutual Access:
Frederick gets full S-316 access (fob, mail, amenities) anytime
(together/apart);
Oksana gets full Iowa access. No lock changes without mutual keys.
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Mutual Content Removal:
Both remove online content involving the other.
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Mutual Co-op Compliance:
Both follow bylaws; no damage/removals without consent. Mutual liability.
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Mutual Iowa Room:
Oksana's room secure; Frederick's DC space the same.
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Mutual Consequences:
Breach triggers mutual remedies (injunction, damages $200/day loss of use).
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Mutual Entire Agreement:
Full understanding; changes in writing.
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Governing Law:
DC/Iowa; enforceable in either.
Effective:
Upon signatures; reconciliation anytime.
Frederick J. Shaddock _______________________ Date: __________
Oksana Shemet Shaddock _______________________ Date: __________