October 16, 2025
Judy Tyrrell
15131 Stillfield Place
Centreville, VA 20120-3910
To: JudyTyrrell@gmail.com
CC: GM@harboursquare.coop
Dear Judy,
I hope this finds you well. It has been over 15 years since we first met when you
were the Manager at Tiber Island Coop when Oksana and I lived there (2010-2012). I have always
appreciated your steady hand in fostering a fair community at Harbour Square,
where I've been a resident for 22 years total (N-32 owner 2001-2010; S-316
co-owner since 2012). This is no way to treat a long time Harbour Square
resident. As someone on the official Guest List, I am entitled to standard
assistance from you and the Management Office. Yet you have personally
chosen not to respect those rights in this marital matter, such as the September
11th illegal entry attempt, your ordering the Guards to illegally return my
addressed mail.
Your two letters admonishing Oksana's rudeness to our excellent security
team—dated November 1, 2019 (re: cursing and loud behavior toward Lynn Felix and
Alvin Chase over a package for me, warning of appropriate action if repeated)
and November 19, 2021 (re: threatening Bridgette Everett's job over a contractor
incident, noting discussion with the Board and potential hearing)—show the
impartiality that makes this place special. You've upheld fairness then, and I
know you'd extend that to me as a long-time resident and marital co-owner.
Oksana's pattern (fired January 2025 for rudeness to co-workers/managers at 8
companies) extends here, with you as the Enable. Without your willingness
to exceed GM duties, she could not deprive me of marital property/use rights (lis
pendens filed Oct 9, 2025, clouding title).
There are 477 units in Harbour Square, and if even half are married, that makes
about 238 spouses, many who are not Deed Signers. You are not going to their
units to demand that they leave, trying to get the Police to evict them, nor
telling the guards to return their mail. You are doing discriminatory
enforcement of a law that is not in the Bylaws, only against me. Nowhere do the
Bylaws, or DC Law, or the US Constitution give you that authority. It is outside
your duties as GM. You have acted in a rogue manner, way outside the job
description in the Bylaws. The guards do obey but sadly. You have to make
them sign a paper with the implication their personnel file would be affected.
No one thinks what Oksana and you are doing is right. Not the Judge (Oct 9
ruling affirming my rights), not the Police (Sep 11 confirmation of my
residency), not the Guards (if you give them freedom of speech), not the DMV
(issuing my license here), and not the Postman (handing me my envelopes outside
the building).
No one (except Oksana, and only half the time) really opposes my having all the
rights I had for over 20 years. You've spent more time on Oksana than any
resident in the history of Harbour Square—imagine if she did these things to her
husband that you wouldn't tolerate toward yours at home. No one will blame you
(except maybe Oksana) if you simply refuse to get involved; you have the right
to say, "No, I am busy with Harbour Square matters. You will have to work that
out with your husband." A suit against you would be sad, but sadly necessary if
this continues. This is not a Harbour Square matter because you are not acting
in accord with HS bylaws. I am addressing this to your home to reinforce
that. As a co-owner, I do not want the Assessment I pay half of to be used for
Harbour Square's attorneys. You should use your own attorney. Harbour Square is
not being sued, it would be you personally.
With Oksana unemployed since January, despite her daily job hunting, we are both
committed to steadily paying the $1,200/month assessments via my computer
consulting and training work. To that end, I'm reaching out pre-court as a
courtesy: Attached is a draft motion I would prefer not to file in my pending
case (2025-CAB-004804 before Judge Ross) to add you individually for those
oversteps. I am not suing Harbour Square because my 477 neighbors have not done
anything wrong. I have had harm my health/access (fob denial since
Sep 10 causing my Blood Pressure to go up, without the ability to exercise or
swim by doctor's orders.
Out of respect for our history, let's resolve amicably: Issue a
temporary key fob for S-316 (with my DC ID verification) and confirm you will
remain neutral — no involvement in the Shaddock husband/wife dispute. Just
standard resident/guest support. I've attached a simple "Proposed Resolution"
one-pager for your/board review. Let's keep our working dynamic strong for
everyone's sake.
Warm regards,
Frederick Shaddock
Unit S-316, Harbour Square
520 N Street SW, Washington, DC 20024
202-365-6500
Shaddock@Harbour-Square.com