From: Frederick
To: Pavelich, Oksana
Date: May 14, 2026

 

Oksana can have a room at our Iowa House, but I would like at least a closet for my business clothes when I visit my employers in DC, 2 suits, 4 white shirts, 2 ties, and good shoes.  I would not call the Police if she visits Fairfield, and expect the same courtesy if I visit DC.   I will not agree to be considered a trespasser - and neither should see.  This is nonsense for marital property.

 
If Oksana simply let me stay from September 10-12, 2025 then I would have returned to Iowa.  I was an invited speaker, along with Senator Ron Johnson, Dennis Kucinich, Curt WEldon and Lt. Col. Anthony Shaffer, to speak at a 9/11 Convention.  But Oksana made me stay in a hotel.
https://aneta.org/events/20250911DC

 
Since she wants a room at our Iowa house, I guess that means the divorce is off - again for the 10th time. This is why we keep reconciling - upon realizing that we cut ourselves off from having both a City & Town life.  A divorce would mean that we each get new spouses, none of whom would want an "ex" to have any room, or closet. 

 
Let's just focus on the problem at hand.  It serves no one to have sewage over flowing in the Fairfield Iowa house basement.  It is a health hazard, and hinders my ability to pay the mortgage, much less help Oksana, because I cannot rent to anyone without flushability. 

 

 

 

 

 
 
From: Joseph Pavelich <Joe@iclawfirm.com>
Sent: Thursday, May 14, 2026 5:12 PM
To: fred shaddock.net <fred@shaddock.net>
Subject: Temporary Agreement

Mr. Shaddock,

 

I am sending with this letter a proposed temporary stipulation which is intended to settle some of the short-term issues of your and Oksana’s pending dissolution of marriage action.  Oksana has reviewed this document already and approves its terms, though she has not signed it.

 

If you agree to this proposal without any changes, please sign on page 6.  After you have signed, please return it to me so that Oksana and I can also both sign this agreement.  If you approve it without changes, it is my intention to submit this Stipulation to the clerk of court and ask that it be adopted by the court without the need for any additional hearing. 

 

Therefore, I am also including a proposed order for your review.  This order will be submitted to the court along with the signed Stipulation and the judge will affix his or her signature to the end of the order.  If you approve of the order without any further changes, please sign on page 4 where your signature is indicated.

 

You are not required to sign either of these documents.  If you require the advice of an attorney, I encourage you to contact the lawyer of your choice and to present these documents to him or her.  As Oksana’s lawyer, I cannot professionally or ethically provide you with legal advice of any kind.  If you require any changes to the Stipulation or order, please provide me with your suggestions in writing so that I can share them with Oksana.

 

Joe.

 

Joseph C. Pavelich

Fitzgerald, Klesner, & Pavelich

373 Scott Court, Ste. B

Iowa City, IA  52245

Phone:  319-354-1712