IN THE DISTRICT COURT OF IOWA
IN AND FOR JEFFERSON COUNTY
David Townsend, Petitioner
v.
Oksana Shemet Shaddock, Respondent
Case No. (Insert case number)
COMES NOW, Petitioner David Townsend, a 78-year-old U.S. Army veteran who served in the Vietnam War as a Sergeant, and respectfully requests that the Court issue a No Contact Order against the Respondent, Oksana Shemet Shaddock. As a resident at the marital home in Fairfield, Iowa, and someone receiving home care assistance, I believe the Respondent’s actions have directly impacted my well-being, both physically and mentally, and are in violation of my need for a peaceful and safe environment as prescribed by my doctor. I just had to go to the Jefferson County Health Clinic for an overnight examination.
I suffer from Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD), a condition that has worsened due to the Respondent's recent presence at the Fairfield house. My doctor has explicitly prescribed a peaceful environment as part of my treatment and recovery. However, Respondent's disruptive behavior, including shouting and making unreasonable demands, has severely disturbed the household environment. On several occasions, she has used inappropriate language, yelling "the F word" loudly enough to wake me from rest.
Respondent’s behavior is reminiscent of the drill instructors I experienced during boot camp in the 1970s, which has brought back traumatic memories from my time in service. This heightened stress has negatively affected my mental state, worsening my PTSD symptoms, which require careful management in a quiet and stable environment.
Since Respondent’s arrival, I have found it increasingly difficult to recover due to the stress and anxiety caused by her actions. I receive regular care from a professional caregiver, Miss A, who helps me with daily tasks and takes me to doctor appointments. The presence of Respondent has disrupted this care and created an environment where I feel unsafe and uncomfortable in my own home.
Miss A, who has been a key part of my care, felt forced to leave the house due to the stress caused by Respondent's arrival. This further complicated my recovery and has left me without the critical assistance I rely on for my medical needs.
Not only has Respondent disrupted my peace, but she has also caused significant disturbances within the household. Her behavior has led to the loss of rental income from tenants who are considering leaving due to her actions. Miss A has expressed her intention to pick up her belongings and move out, further destabilizing the home environment.
In addition, during her previous visit to the house in July, the Respondent falsely accused the Petitioner (Frederick Shaddock) of assault after she scratched her own finger while attempting to take his ignition key while the vehicle was moving. These false accusations, along with her current behavior, make me feel that further contact with the Respondent would continue to threaten the stability of my living situation and health.
I respectfully request that the Court issue a No Contact Order against the Respondent, Oksana Shemet Shaddock, to ensure that she stays away from the Fairfield house, particularly my room and the basement office where the Petitioner (Frederick Shaddock) conducts his work and stores important documents. I further request that the Court take into consideration the severe impact her presence has had on my health and well-being.
RESPECTFULLY SUBMITTED,
David Townsend, Petitioner
Date: (Insert Date)
cc: Oksana Shemet Shaddock, Respondent (via electronic filing)